Friday, August 7, 2009
we have a new ED ... update
We have a new ED.
So much goes on behind the scenes, that is never blogged, even if one is a prolific blogger like me. At this stage in our journey I no longer share the day to day nitty gritty, cause I don't have time and I care not for the losers who do the anonymous posts about how unethical we are, and what baaaaad parents yada yada yada we will be.
So the blog has now been set to comment moderation.
Yes, we are out of bucks and we are going Indian ED. This has always been an issue for me, not for Bob, for many reasons I can no longer be bothered to share. Those of you who know me know the story, support me and understand this not about culture or skin colour .... eh, can't be arsed to explain.
If we had more money we would consider flying in another donor to India, but we are so satisfied with the choice of donors offered by our new doc and hospital, we are happy.
This is how we chose our donor:
1. proven donor, not once but multiple times (ie. successful IVF cycles and pregnancies).
2. medical background of donor provided
3. ... would like to say we went for looks, but we didn't get a photo so we told our doc "We like them all" ... you choose!
And she did.
We cycle in 4 weeks with EPU in 6 weeks.
Our road has been long and hard, and so many of you were shocked with our latest results. Thank YOU... for emailing ... but we really are okay. I know we probably should be feeling worse than we are. But we truly are okay because we know this will work, we have a hospital we trust, we have every protection in place and we just have to let it go.
Posted by Phoenix at 2:05 AM