Tuesday, November 17, 2009

The hematoma and the twins


This is not our hematoma, or our baby, just an example. The hematoma is very small. I have Dr Googled hematomas, and thanks to my surro buddies who did as well and provided me with much comfort. In 90-95% of cases they either bleed out or are reabsorbed by the body. They can grow and cause a problem, but I'm not going to think about that right now.

Our next scan is the all important six week - fetal pole and heartbeat scan - next Monday at six weeks. I can't believe we are already five weeks and two days. With twins! We are in for much work in the future. We are both soooo busy right now, with the build and work, and ... just life.
A very long way to go. And I of all people know how precarious this pregnancy thing is for anyone, surrogacy or not. To the charming "people" who commented that it is karma we have a hematoma (ie. read, your pregnancy is over or will be soon) ... we already have back up plan number 100 in the pipeline. Such a shame you quit when the going got tough, or got lucky first try. You can't rain on my parade.
: )))

13 comments:

Karen said...

Meg i really sending positive thoughts to you and your babies. Hoping that all will go so well for you all in the next 9 months. Dont let people get you down. Best wishes karen

Stephaniekb said...

I Dr. Googled too, and was so relieved to see that this is usually not a big deal. In this case, I think you're lucky to be a little removed from the pregnancy, so you don't have to be alarmed by every drop of blood.

Twins! Whooo hoo!I'm sure Lisa and Nik will have plenty of advice for you about juggling two. Better get that house built fast!!

Anonymous said...

Funny how platitudes always seem to come from those that have suffered no loss or heartbreak themselves. Karma is a great word to use for everyone else's pain... do they think if they package it up nicely then nothing bad will ever happen to them? wishing you every bit of luck and prayers, J.

Doug R said...

good luck with everything...!

Mandy said...

so exciting...twins...i'm just so happy for u...go tell those ppl to screw themselves...a baby is the happiest thing in the world. if they cant see that its a shame...

babies bring people togeher..all the best hun!!

Anonymous said...

Every morning when I wake up, have my coffee and get ready to face the day ahead at work, I peek ;) at your blog (which admittedly leads me to other blogs as well!) for inspiration and pertinent information! OK, so I also read you in the evening! I am so relieved for you that this is not as serious as it seemed and am thinking "lucky both of you IPs"! Two at once! So much effort and bingo! Finally! And, twins! I am very happy for you! Thanks for all of your blogging! Astrocat88

crystal said...

Thinking of you, and hoping all goes well! My flight leaves this week-end!

Jackie said...

We had a SCH in our pregnancy and I was very relieved to learn that they are common!

This is happening! It really is happening!

mehdirah said...

Felicitations for your twins, they will do it!

Mehdi

Anonymous said...

Suck shit bitch you are going to gaol . forget about your foetus's they won't allow them in gaol. They will take your babies off you because are are criminal and not fit to be a mother. read up on the Surrogacy Act 2008 and get a good lawyer in WA , not the freeby in Sydney who are useless. You will need a QC for your criminal defence you fucked with the wrong person. You piece of human waste.

Amani said...

Had to post this one so you can all see what I am dealing with and have been dealing with for two months now. It's in the hands of the court, the police and the lawyers. We are relieved we declined to accept him as a client and help him become a parent.

Anonymous said...

How terrifying the prospect that your stalker may have child/ren one day. Anyone who would waste their time wishing for and posting such vile intent towards another human being should not have the privlidge of raising a child. Anonymous is a man whose wife has left him. Sorry to those wonderful men who support their partners through pregnancy and surrogacy, focus their energies upon their own journey rather than attempt to destroy anothers, and exhibits such malevolent and violent intent should not have a child until they have dealt with their anger issues. I suspect it is not him who has 'fucked with the wrong person' but the other way around. Just ignore the 'human piece of waste' - you have nothing to worry about.

Oddity Acres Clan said...

Ive been on holidays overseas for a while.

I just want to say that I am so happy for you both, and that I wish you all the best of health and goodness in this world.

Our love to you both. Lets hope 2010 is our year also.