Saturday, November 27, 2010
Getting the crap off my blog
I want this blog to be about Toby, and Bob, Willo and me. Our family. We tried long and hard to have what we have now, and I don't want to have to defend myself, be political, answer defamatory accusations made by demented imbeciles elsewhere in blogland, nor pollute my pretty close to perfect world. At the same time, I refuse to be maligned by greedy and bitter mongrels with an agenda. I will always stand up for myself, my clinic and for my family against any lying bully.
I have set-up another blog.
This is where I will post anything that has nothing to do with our family. You will find it linked as "Internationalsurrogacyadvocatescrap" on my blog link. This blog is a free-for-all. It is unmoderated, if you want to be part of the problem, the lies, the fear and the innuendo, feel free to post, if you want to go to India and have babies, stay away, don't believe the bullshit and focus on you and creating your family.
At the end of the day, you are all looking for what we have now achieved, a baby through surrogacy in India. Our road was full of pain and disappointment, but our journey was nowhere near as hard as some have had. If you keep trying - it works! It is not always an easy journey, and you have to do your research, keep your eyes open, listen to the sensible people who have gone before you - the true veterans - and keep the hell away from tin-pot mom-and-pop agencies in USA who seek only to charge you more, and do nothing more than you can get directly from a clinic.
Back to reality: here is our Toby, at 5 months, our miracle baby, who is attempting to crawl. We thank God every single day for Toby, most days we can't believe we have him with us, and most days we just marvel that we were able to bring him into the world through SCI Healthcare and Dr Shivani and team. I know from the many parents I email with who have their babes through SCI and other clinics feel the same way. If you keep trying, it works!
Posted by Phoenix at 11:40 PM